It is easy to ask for something the law will not allow. Here are the mistakes to avoid when adding instructions and preferences to an LPA.
Don’t appoint attorneys to make decisions one way, then include instructions that make them act differently. If you said your attorneys should act “jointly and severally” — so they can decide alone or together — you must not then add instructions such as:
Instructions about gifts often cause problems. There are strict limits on the kinds of gifts your attorneys may give on your behalf. They may give gifts — to your family, friends, associates, or to themselves — on “customary occasions” such as weddings, anniversaries, birthdays and religious holidays, and may donate to charities you have previously supported.
You cannot make it compulsory for your attorneys to give such gifts, or to use your money to benefit or maintain other people. Instructions using words like “must”, “shall” or “has to” for this will be invalid, because they could stop your attorneys acting in your best interests — your attorneys would instead need the Court of Protection’s permission for that kind of gifting or maintenance.
A preference — using words like “would like”, “may” or “can” — suggesting a gift is fine. Your attorneys will still need to consider whether it is reasonable, taking into account how much money you have.
Gifts you can’t authorise, unless expressed as a preference: trust funds for grandchildren; school fees for grandchildren; interest-free loans to family; maintenance for any family member other than your spouse, civil partner, or a child under 18. Your attorneys would need the Court of Protection’s permission to make gifts like these on your behalf.
| Preferences | Not binding. Attorneys should bear them in mind. Use words like “prefer” or “would like”. |
| Instructions | Binding. Attorneys must follow them exactly, unless unlawful or unworkable. Use words like “must”, “shall” or “have to” — and take care they don’t conflict with the rest of the LPA, or with the law. |
Some material on this page is adapted from the Office of the Public Guardian’s official guidance.